Hey guys I am confused about how privacy friendly are lemmy and matrix I would love if someone can answer these questions :- 1.) some websites state that lemmy prefers you to have one user server (that is 1 server with only 1 user ) , but somewhere else i read that you need to whitelisted by servers to allow you to post on their community , 2.)Matrix is bad as default but you can self host it , but for self hosting do you need to get a domain name a vps and the hassle of managing it , isnt there any .onion address that i can use 3.) can i use duckdns or no-ip to get a subdomain and then host matrix /lemmy server there , how safe /applicable is that

Can someone pls link to any sources on how we can maybe support fediverse by translation or coding (if possible) as well , and make them as efficient as their other counterpart (like matrix to discord , since i heard matrix is preety bloated)

  • chickentendrils [any, comrade/them]
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    11 months ago

    It sounds like your main concerns are your IP leaking to instance operators? Valid. The most private way with the least absolute hassle, in my mind, would be to just use an account on an existing instance but only ever access it via Tor or a a VPN over Tor if Tor is blocked by most instances. Haven't checked. Can be a commercial VPN or a VPN on a VPS you have, but if you're going for broke then only something setup and paid for anonymously. So via Tor or public wifi networks with a wifi cannon with random MAC & taking care to avoid cameras, and paid with XMR or a prepaid debit card bought with cash at a shop without CCTV, preferably months or years earlier if there's cameras in the area.

    1.) some websites state that lemmy prefers you to have one user server (that is 1 server with only 1 user ) , but somewhere else i read that you need to whitelisted by servers to allow you to post on their community

    Having federation default to deny or default to allow new instances is up to the operators of existing instances. Unless there's a central place like (join-lemmy.org) which can aggregate these settings automatically I think you'd have to do some digging.

    3.) can i use duckdns or no-ip to get a subdomain and then host matrix /lemmy server there , how safe /applicable is that

    Dynamic DNS services should be fine, unless operators of large instances start blocking them. Lemmy instances are identified by their full domain, including subdomains, but if it became a common abuse/spam vector then there's no guarantees.