It's an unspoken part of reactionary thinking, but I think it really is common for reactionary cishet men to genuinely be afraid of women that enjoy sex.
Control thing. A woman knowing what she wants or a woman enjoying multiple sexual partners in life is not seen as submissive to the man enough. In their eyes, women need to serve, not have control over their own life and desires.
It's an unspoken part of reactionary thinking, but I think it really is common for reactionary cishet men to genuinely be afraid of women that enjoy sex.
are they afraid of making a woman happy?
Control thing. A woman knowing what she wants or a woman enjoying multiple sexual partners in life is not seen as submissive to the man enough. In their eyes, women need to serve, not have control over their own life and desires.
That's weird AF and I've never even considered that as a point of view before.
it's a control thing