• gregorum@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      If you prefer chocolate ice cream to vanilla ice cream, that doesn’t make you bigoted or prejudiced against vanilla. Preferring one thing to another isn’t, in itself, a value judgement. When you make a value judgement, that chocolate is better than vanilla for some arbitrary reason, then it becomes problematic.

    • bunbun@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 year ago

      The example another person gave is on point. In relationships with people it usually comes down to "this relationship might not work out since I'm demi, but I like you so let's go on a date" versus "I don't go on dates with allo people".