• usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
    hexbear
    21
    7 months ago

    yes but your right to refuse to consent type out emails, or stack boxes is less intimate and personal than your control over your sexual consent

    it is for example perfectly socially acceptable to pressurize and even insist that people do various chores which would be deeply immoral in the case of sexual consent. For example your roommate could insist that as a condition of your living arrangement you have to clean the house (which is a bodily autonomy sacrifice as you have to use your body to work potentially against what you want) but they would be out of bounds if they insisted you do sexual favours for them

    • @Jordan_U@lemmy.ml
      hexbear
      6
      edit-2
      7 months ago

      Onlyfans models generally have the option to apply for a job at McDonald's instead.*

      People working for the military generally do not.

      * Ok, there's actually more nuance here because a large percentage of sex workers are disabled, and lack of accessibility and general ableism prevents them from working most other jobs. But while that's important to understand, it's a different discussion.