https://twitter.com/juutsid/status/1720518455458214044

tl;dr: millennials are afraid of failure.

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    • TreadOnMe [none/use name]
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      People are poor but if you are poor and have kids there is a huge stigma attached to it if you were raised middle and upper middle class.

      • emeralddawn45@discuss.tchncs.de
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        8 months ago

        Yeah this is a huge part of it. Boomers were able to give their kids good lives. Millennial can't even give their kids the same standard they have. People want to give their kids a better life than they had, but this is impossible without a house and a yard and extra money for game consoles and extracurricular and playmates and all the shit that was taken for granted in a 90s childhood.

        • Jacobo_Villa_Lobos [he/him]
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          8 months ago

          Nail on the head. Would my hypothetical kids be fine without the treats I was given as a child? Probably.

          Would it be exhausting to justify internally, explain to people, and face judgement from family? Definitely.

    • CrimsonSage [any]
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      This is arguable as a lot if the "all people before capitalism were mud farmers" claptrap comes from the fact that the priests of capitalism always leave non market/capitalist goods out of their calculations. Like medieval pesants were wealthier than early modern farmhands because they had the commons.

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        • ped_xing [he/him]
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          That covers ~15 years of the average cost to raise a child. Huh, maybe this is the source of the child labor push.