I'm fucking aggravated I went to the gay bar because it's the only bar in this shit hole city with an even mildly clubby vide and the dance floor was completely empty and I got hit on by a guy old enough to be my dad which at the time was amusing but now I'm like wtf even gay men are men? Dumb fucking guppies I guess I have to drive the hour and a half to philly just for a dance floor ridiculous
If you like ballroom dancing, Lion's Club may have some dance parties in your area. If you like salsa, you can look wherever Latino music/events are. That's the best bet in my experience. I love dancing, but I haven't done any swing or salsa with people for years.