If you are trying to escape the titanic after it hit an iceberg would you rather get on another titanic-class ship operated by the same person who built the Titanic and is already hyping how fast this new ship can go or get on a boat owned by some sailing nerd who is part of a coop flotilla of eccentric nerds and commies?

That is the choice between Bluesky and Fediverse. If you chose bluesky you chose wrong, sorry there's no other way to put it.