If you genuinely don't like it, then tell them in a serious way, not in the moment.

I do and it doesn’t bother me because I know he thinks it’s cute and I just like being touched. But any time you set a boundary about being touched and your partner disrespects it, that’s a no from me, dawg.

They do it because they think your reaction is cute lol.

I agree though if you tell them not to they shouldn't.

I dunno, maybe they don't think you mean it?

No. I have self image issues.

I think it might be an issue for me if I asked my partner not to and they kept it up. Maybe that’s why I suck at relationships.

One gf doesn't have any meat on her bones to grab anything the other gf told me a while ago that's not her jam. One nesting partner doesn't mind it and knows it's my way of showing affection they pinch my butt and sides every once in a while. The thickest partner loves getting their sides touched and held. We called them "bumpers".

Yeah, but we're married so it's not like I'm holding anything back from her anyway

I let 2 of my partners do it but not the other because they do it weird. Poly life

She calls them chubbly bits, but yes

It's mostly because I am super ticklish