Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

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  • LocalOaf [they/them, ze/hir]
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    11 hours ago
    nicotine, drugs, eating

    Gym closed for Thanksgiving I think

    Don't really know what to do with myself since I don't have work and have nothing really going on

    Feeling bad about smoking again and trying not to overeat and squander some of my gym progress

    Shroomin' a little bit shroomjak

    Might do a little spa day at home for myself but I don't wanna have a dysphoria spiral idk

    Hope everyone has a lovely gay ass Thanksgiving

    🦃🥧🌽🫘🥔🍂

    The kitties said you're all lovely and hope you eat a yummy lil feast for yourself

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    • LocalOaf [they/them, ze/hir]
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      7 hours ago

      Update: gym was not closed, they just didn't have any staff there

      Went on a walk and went there just to be able to tell myself I've went every day since I got the membership, but didn't have gym clothes so I just checked in to use the bathroom and refill my water and get a snack from the vending machine

      My legs are so fuckin' swole tho broh, you don't even know lady-doge

    • lilypad [she/her, null/void]
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      9 hours ago

      Gonna share what my friend said to me when i fell off and started smoking again a month ago: it takes an average of 7-9 attempts to quit before you succeed permanently. Recovery is nonlinear and everyones path and process is different.

      Treat yourself with love and care and understanding, localoaf meow-hug

      • LocalOaf [they/them, ze/hir]
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        8 hours ago

        cuddle

        I've been under a lot of stress lately

        That shouldn't be an excuse, but it's the way she goes bud pain

        I'll switch back to vaping and zyn after this pack

    • LocalOaf [they/them, ze/hir]
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      11 hours ago

      Wheezing and watery eyed at the Trillbillies bit of Bob Dylan working the the return counter at Patagonia michael-laugh

      "We gotta take it back"