I was diagnosed with ADHD and started on medication at 12, but not really told anything about what it meant for me or how to deal with it, and when I was 18 -literally when my parents dropped me off at college- was told I was autistic
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this is the mark of the best posts. Thanks for sharing comrade!
God damn if this isn't one of my worst fears, I've gotten quite good at masking unless I'm distressed. Though, whenever I go through this particular thought loop, I always decide that in that case being misidentified would probably distress me enough for it to become apparent lol