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Cake day: May 21st, 2022

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  • only thing most transphobes are good for is target practice

    I think transphobes can be clumped into categories, and some of those categories are persuadable to an extent while others are not.

    I actually just finished with a thread that went way better than expected. When I got there the thread was all really fucked up transphobic memes, pictures of intermediate stages of phalloplasty, etc.

    I've been copying down the exchange to study it later and maybe post it, but i got the memes to stop and i talked to one of the anons about how phalloplasty actually turns out and why trans men get them, and there were a lot of long pauses between the anon's posts but they eventually seemed to adopt a more understanding mindset

    I'm still monitoring the thread but it looks like the transphobic anon has left, hopefully to go think things through






  • this is also what brought me around. I'm not sure how to turn it into rhetoric though.

    transphobes are coming from the position where they currently doubt a trans person's self-knowledge and motives. If I say "actually their self-knowledge is pretty damn good and they tend to be good people with good motives" the response will be "nuh uh, I don't believe you." If I mention trans people who are obviously intelligent and kind and have good motives, like Chelsea Manning for example, the response can be "small sample size, cherrypicked." I tried this and that was the response I got, although the person who said it had some red flags for impersuadability and I stopped talking to them soon after. Someone more persuadable might react in a different way.

    what do you think of this approach https://hexbear.net/post/196621/comment/2473672



  • biology is definitely an easy answer, which I think is what led me to it.

    some vague mention of transphobic rhetoric

    Much of the transphobic rhetoric online posits that trans people are either delusional or have various strange motives. Many transphobes are christians who think trans people are an affront to god.

    A biological basis swats much of that aside, but it also potentially restricts socially acceptable expression of sexuality, like you mentioned, especially if the biological basis is one we claim to fully understand. We end up with an approved list of ways people can be, and it'll be a list reactionaries can attempt to modify.

    What do you think about the following middle ground approach: I point to some biological patterns that have been found and say "obviously at least some trans people were born this way and have no control over it" but then add "it'll be a long time before we fully understand all the biological factors that contribute, so maybe we should just let people live their lives how they want to as long as they are not hurting anyone. There aren't that many, and overwhelmingly they are not hurting anyone. Trans people have been around throughout human history, this is just part of the human condition."