Some guy will post a picture of a pretty standard looking pepperoni pizza and say: "Imagine not living in new york." And then there's the whole bodega discourse, which is also funny. "For you non-new yorkers, let me explain: a bodega is not a corner store. It's a place where you can buy gatorade, toilet paper, AND eggs." Thank you sir for explaining that to a slack-jawed yokel such as myself.

  • grey_wolf_whenever [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Really hit the nail on the head, I love this place but it feels like swimming in lake thats slowly drying up. Straight up half the island is the most corporate, ugly garbage, just whole entire areas ceded to Citi Bank and Sweetgreen. Its a shame because it really is one of the only functionally livable places without a car, everyone I know in LA, San Francisco, and Philadelphia has a car.

    Obviously Im biased but I do so resent the amount of people that come out of the woodwork and have to be kind of shitty in New York discourse? Cool, you have a gas station that sells gatorade and eggs, is it owned and run by the same guy for the last decade or is it a Sunoco? Like, I get it, you gotta get your dunks in, but someone on Twitter posts a picture of a cup full of butter they got at a bodega and everyone has to come in with I CAN ALSO BUY BUTTER who cares dude? Just let the NYC chumps pay their exorbitant rent and try to enjoy themselves.

    • CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn [any]
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      3 years ago

      I think just because of the population of the city and how much its media circles dominate. It was a while before I realized how much of the American media I consume as a foreigner is more specifically New York media about America.

      I could understand being frustrated at social media spaces flooding with the same shit about the same city you don't live in, over and over.

      • grey_wolf_whenever [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        its a downward spiral, like a flushing toilet, because it tends to flood social media because of the people getting angry.

    • thethirdgracchi [he/him, they/them]
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      3 years ago

      Yeah it's a shame that NYC is pretty much the only place I can live in the United States without owning a car, and I can feel it dying. The outer boroughs still have life, but it's only a matter of time before my local places are replaced with Dig Inns and Trader Joe's.

      • grey_wolf_whenever [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        Breaks my heart tbh. Everyone with institutional power in this city actively cheers on its death, its terrible. Its got what, ten years left before it just empties out? Its so mismanaged, and its been the only place I can enjoy living since I grew up in a rural/suburban hellhole.

        • thethirdgracchi [he/him, they/them]
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          3 years ago

          Yeah I think ten years is about how long I'm spending in the city before moving somewhere else, alas not in the US since where the fuck else can I get something even close to NYC in this hellhole? Wish all my friends and family weren't here...

          • grey_wolf_whenever [he/him]
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            3 years ago

            Ive been thinking about, idk, europe somewhere? Maybe tokyo, Id have a really hard time blending though Japan isnt great for ex-pats. In reality Ill probably ride this sinking ship for a long time.

        • wtypstanaccount04 [he/him]M
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          3 years ago

          Gonna be honest NYC is not going away, it's just changing. It's changed several times over the decades. Your NYC is probably going away though, sadly. NYC of the 1940s is totally different from the NYC of the 1970s is totally different from the NYC of the 90s is totally different from the NYC of today.