Due to multiple factors, such as unaddressed ableist removals from the /c/196 moderators, defense of chasers, no-quarter rules regarding our users, leakage of good-faith DMs from our admin team, and a general lack of initiative to punish these behaviors, we have come to the conclusion that the 196 community on lemmy.blahaj.zone has made the fediverse an unsafe space for our queer, disabled, neurodivergent, non-western, and other marginalized comrades on this forum, and we will be defederating from lemmy.blahaj.zone until we can be confident that this will not continue to be an issue.

We have attempted to make good-faith parley with both the instance admin and the comm moderators, but we've reached a point which we feel that until these behaviors are addressed by instance administration, we can no longer continue to federate in good-faith while our users are being actively invalidated by a small-but-vocal portion of the forum. Once we are confident that these behaviors have ceased and are unlikely to continue, we are more-than-happy to refederate in the name of queer solidarity.

Thanks for bearing with us :07:

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    • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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      As a cis bi man I'd like to take the time to apologise for that person sexualizing trans people during what should be a post about supporting others. It's gross behaviour and I hope he realises that one day.

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      I feel sorry for Ada, I don't envy her position at all - Edit: I would have purged them all though if I was in her position meow-shining

      196 on the other hand might wanna look at applying to join the CIA. Managing to infiltrate, undermine and wreck a pro trans instance with pro chaser culture is impressive as it is insidious and vile.

      It's uncanny

    • silent_water [she/her]
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      I love how you went through the exact same journey I went through over the last 3 days over a single post lmao. how the fuck do you as a trans person look around and see chasers + people defending them and go this-is-fine

      I literally can't fathom

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    • flan [they/them]
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      Ada trying to reign in 196 who absolutely have the clout to strong arm her

      Ada is the admin right? They could just turn the server off, couldn't they? Or ban them...

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