• AOCapitulator [they/them, she/her]
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    1 year ago

    People who worry about “flexibility” are aliens to me

    How are you in a material spot to just bounce around because you want to?

    • FactuallyUnscrupulou [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      This person admitted they won't actually carry through with it, they just want to sound like a wealthy person.

      • AOCapitulator [they/them, she/her]
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        1 year ago

        They clearly are wealthy enough that their brain is half rotted, causing them to say things like “I’ve seen many people living in poverty because they refuse to move”

        Absurd

          • AOCapitulator [they/them, she/her]
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            1 year ago

            Literally, when I told them they were detached from reality they responded “what? No I’m not, it’s not expensive I just rent a truck and move!”

            • FactuallyUnscrupulou [he/him]
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              1 year ago

              I got a new job after the pandemic and got 3k in relocation compensation, and that didn't even cover the most bare bones of a move. It's sucked and I'll probably never put myself through it again.

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      1 year ago

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    • GiddyGap@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      It's not that I necessarily want to. Jobs just usually end one way or the other after a while. In my experience, renting really opens up the job market. Move wherever the new job is. That's a lot harder when you own.

      • LesbianLiberty [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        I just can't imagine leaving my community so easily for a job I guess, but I imagine plenty of folks must do it all the time.

          • LesbianLiberty [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            Find a big queer city >:) even if you aren't queer there'll be plenty of fine folks and communists abound

        • NuPNuA@lemm.ee
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          1 year ago

          I'm the same as you, but I recognise that I had the privilege of being born in the capital of a very centralised country so there's little reason for me to move to better my lot. If I'd grown up in a deprived former mining town up north I'd probably have been long gone as soon as I could.

        • GiddyGap@lemm.ee
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          1 year ago

          Yeah, I guess everyone has different priorities. I just refuse to let myself or my family live in a crappy situation because I want to stay in a specific location. I often see people living in poverty because they refuse to leave a place to take a job elsewhere. Doesn't make sense to me, but everyone has their own life.

          • AOCapitulator [they/them, she/her]
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            1 year ago

            People don’t live in poverty “because they refuse to move”

            They live in poverty because they are stuck there, and moving to somewhere else is incredibly expensive and difficult

            Your worldview is utterly detached from the reality of the common person

            • GiddyGap@lemm.ee
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              1 year ago

              Not sure how that's "detached from reality."

              I've moved a ton. It has never cost me anything other than the cost of renting a moving truck and sore legs for a few days. Certainly beats living in a place with no job or some random low-paying job.

          • LesbianLiberty [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            Yeah I mean, I came from a very poor region and it was hard to move for me, but it was made easier because my family was beginning to cut me off for being queer anyway and I had the privilege of WFH too. I know lots of people who'd move out of their region if not for their family supporting them in some way they can't get elsewhere (or they don't think so, atleast).