I'm in my 30s so I should be used to this by now, but this shit is getting so stressful guys. I have no savings, my checking account is drained every month with rent, and if there's ever a serious emergency I have no safety net, I'm legitimately fucked. I'm one unplanned expense away from absolute ruin. Those in the same boat as me, how do you deal with this?

  • @Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    hexbear
    11
    10 months ago

    I realized that paying rent was like throwing money into a bottomless pit. Obviously buying a house was out of the question so I bought a used RV and moved into that. I added solar panels and all the VanLife type stuff and now my biggest expense is for the storage unit I put all my stuff in. No more rent, no power, water or most other bills. StarLink is expensive but with all the other expenses eliminated it's not bad at all.

    • @theshatterstone54@feddit.uk
      hexbear
      6
      10 months ago

      But what about an address? No address, no bank account. No bank account, no job. Or can you get paid another way in the US?

      • @Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        hexbear
        1
        10 months ago

        There are services for that. I have an address that can scan/forward mail. Packages are also accepted. I use this address for everything.

    • Annakah69 [she/her]
      hexbear
      4
      10 months ago

      I want to do this. Do you use a gym for showers? The lack of running water is one thing that is making me hesitate.

      • @Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        hexbear
        1
        10 months ago

        My RV holds 40 gallons and has a shower. But yeah, many people do a gym membership for showers. Planet Fitness is like 20 bucks a month.

        • @mayonaise_met@feddit.nl
          hexbear
          3
          10 months ago

          Also you can do maintenance the dirty way because you're probably going to write off the RV/trailer over time, while with a house you want to do it the proper way in order to be able to sell it.