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  • kristina [she/her]
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    i know, im kinda wilding

    earnestly waiting, i need to know what brainworms i have that will end with me being banned now

    • arabiclearner
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      1 year ago

      earnestly waiting, i need to know what brainworms i have that will end with me being banned now

      If I had to guess (not for you specifically, but hexbear in general), it would be tone indicators. The last big struggle session that I can think of was whether we should use tone indicators to accomodate neurodivergent people. It actually makes sense to use them in an online forum like this, even for neurotypical people because nuance is lost when one is just reading text straight up. However, I saw a lot of pushback on this sort of thing from users that would normally be all about the "hexbear party line" (so to speak) of things like vegan solidarity, trans solidarity and respecting pronouns, etc. And it's the same line of argumentation that people who were against meat content warnings were using ("what's the big deal?" etc.). So yeah perhaps that's the next frontier.

      • kristina [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        i already have to badger people to do spoiler tags and nsfw tags properly for trauma related content, that is gonna take ages to catch on

        i do usually use emojis as a tone indicator a lot of times though 🤔 thats probably not very reliable for a lot of neurodivergent people but maybe some emojis could be made to ease adoption, would have to inform people on hover texts

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    • raven [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Shush you're never allowed to leave. I won't let you.

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          • RNAi [he/him]
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            1 year ago

            Huh, I had no idea, what's the message of Hotel California?

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              • axont [she/her, comrade/them]
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                1 year ago

                I had always taken the lyrics to be about a loss of innocence that comes with working in the California entertainment industry. It's all glamorous from the outside but within the residents have become deranged and exploitative.

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              • RNAi [he/him]
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                1 year ago

                WHAT?

                For fuck sakes there ain't no good boomer song

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              • kristina [she/her]
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                Wtf I didn't interpret it that way at all lmao, I thought it was a funny joke about California having nice weather or something which made you not want to leave

                I'm too innocent

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                  • ped_xing [he/him]
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                    1 year ago

                    That seems like a stretch. I highly doubt public mental health facilities have ever been synonymous with intoxicating opulence.

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                      • ped_xing [he/him]
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                        1 year ago

                        Kicking a lot of mentally ill people out onto the streets was an atrocity, no argument from me there.

                        I'm arguing that Hotel California being about mental hospitals doesn't make sense. There are so many lines that run counter to that interpretation:

                        There she stood in the doorway

                        The . . . intake nurse?

                        Her mind is Tiffany-twisted/She got the Mercedes Benz

                        Even if the staff can afford some luxuries, it doesn't seem like something they'd discuss with a patient.

                        They livin' it up at the Hotel California

                        Said nobody about an inpatient mental health facility ever

                        Mirrors on the ceiling/The pink champagne on ice

                        A hazard and contraband that would be immediately removed

                        And the part that might work,

                        You can check out any time you like/But you can never leave

                        really only half works. The "never leave" part works, sure, it was involuntary hospitalization, but how can you explain "check out any time you like?" Letting patients fake a check-out just seems like torture.

                        • TankieCatgirl [she/her, comrade/them]
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                          1 year ago

                          I always thought it was about drug addiction, specifically in the music industry, which lines up a bit more with the things you pointed out imo. And I heard that checking out was a euphemism for suicide.

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                          • Florist [none/use name]
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                            I don't see how he was being pendantic? He was just analyzing the song lyrics to point to another interpretation

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                              • TankieCatgirl [she/her, comrade/them]
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                                1 year ago

                                Or, he could be neurodivergent and tends to take things literally. Just because someone interprets something different than you (particularly something as subjective as song lyrics) doesn't mean you have to go straight to insults.

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                                  • TankieCatgirl [she/her, comrade/them]
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                                    1 year ago

                                    I'm sorry if I came off as aggressive, it wasn't intended that way. I myself have been accused of being pedantic about things because of my autistic perspective, but I can agree that being pedantic isn't inherently a neurodivergent thing, I was just trying to give a different perspective. I do have to disagree that saying someone is being "reddit-level pedantic" is comparable to someone saying something doesn't make sense, though.