Spent a morning out on the town on my day off, and everyone is just fucking buried in their phones 24/7. This realization was so absurd to me

Of course I’m not exempt from this shit, but no wonder people are having so much trouble making friends and creating meaningful relationships in this day and age. So fucking bleak

  • TraumaDumpling
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    11 months ago

    no one reads anymore, tiktok editing has killed attention spans. impossible to get my (also millenial) friends to read theory, i can't even get them to play fucking disco elysium or watch the original gundam series. if its not the hottest newest shit the entire internet is talking about they just don't give a shit. if its not superheroes or a cringe compilation reaction video no one cares. its all lowest-effort intellectually lazy slop, no one is even interested in the deeper themes let alone political implications.

    all these criticism apply to myself as well in the past week i barely managed to force myself to read 'what is to be done' (on chapter V now), and i'm a committed communist in their 30s. when i was younger i read books all the time, even at home, for fun, instead of videogames sometimes, like almost every night. i haven't done that in like 15 years, almost exactly since phones came out. its just easier and lazier to get easier to digest content that doesn't require much mental effort to parse or interpret. we're exhausted from all of our personal psychodramas and from the financial and social strains of existing under capitalism and being responsible for ourselves. i don't even have a job and just the financial insecurity of that, the utter lack of control of my fate is mentally taxing enough that i just want to sit around and do absolutely nothing most of the time or subsume my conscious experience into the ready-made fictitious reality of a videogame.

    you might say this is all personal anecdote and not applicable to 'outside', but i would argue that public life is already severely biased towards and dominated by extroverts.

    • oktherebuddy
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      11 months ago

      I successfully transitioned from rubbing glass to reading at night 2 years ago. Just put your phone to charge in another room instead of by your bed. It made me mad that it was so simple but that's literally it. Now I read for like an hour every night until I'm sleepy. If you need an alarm get an alarm clock, they are like five bucks at a thrift shop.