People keep telling me I only deal in absolutes, and that it's unhealthy and I should sometimes find the middle-ground between two different positions. (I.e. caring for myself vs others, putting all my energy on a task vs not even bothering)
So what's the procedure to finding a middle-ground so I can apply it to literally everything in my life, as the Autistic Gods demand? \s
Focus on what's in between them. The boring shit that seems like it doesn't matter. That's the normie zone. That's where they spend most of their time, and that's actually what most of life is even if we don't notice it. You have to work hard to construct this space in your head. It's gonna take a while.
Reading through this post as OPs words absolutely apply to me as well - thanks for posting this!