My treat is lecturing others on why their treat consumption is bad. And cocaine, I really really love cocaine.

  • Great_Leader_Is_Dead
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    9 months ago

    My treat is lecturing others on why their treat consumption is bad.

    Still a treat, you're still treat chasing.

    And cocaine, I really really love cocaine.

    Cocaine is like the worst treat. It's made by slave labor and sold to fund right wing paramilitaries, all just to make you feel like you drank four red bulls with a prozac. Seriously, eating a T-bone while watching Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad and jerking it to BDSM porn is probably more ethnical than a Coke habit.

    • SpiderFarmer [he/him]
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      9 months ago

      BDSM is likely going to be a safer porn to watch than vanilla stuff. But you're talking about something with a shit-ton of rules (if it's done right) and a community that is more likely to be showing off their stuff willingly.

      • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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        9 months ago

        A lot of the theory and practice around positive, informed, active consent that I've learned over the years I learned from people in the BDSM scene. The good folks in that scene understand it and take it extremely seriously. Like no matter how vanilla the sex is, I always talk about safe words with people first, and check in regularly, because its a useful tool to have even if you never need to use it. And I learned that from hanging out with BDSM people.