I don't think we shouldn't criticize trans people who have reactionary beliefs, I just think that the way people do it matters.

Not misgendering someone and not getting gleeful at the abuse they're going to experience under a fascist regime are the bare minimum. If there are allies who can't even do that, then I think it's fair to question whether they really believe in trans-rights with no strings attached.

You pretty much said what I was trying to get at with my comment.