I just realised that "like it's your first time" has a positive connotation I guess, but like... motherfucker? Do most people have non-awful first-time experiences of sex? Between garbage sex ed and cisheteronormativity I just can't imagine. I doubt it was even momentous for most people tbh? Idk.
I mean I legit unironically think it's better to miss out during your teens, feels less good if you also miss out in your 20s
I haven't been single since I was 14 though and all I got was a fucking boatload of trauma that's taken twelve years and counting to work through
:yea::yea::yea: ask me how it's going
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