I just realised that "like it's your first time" has a positive connotation I guess, but like... motherfucker? Do most people have non-awful first-time experiences of sex? Between garbage sex ed and cisheteronormativity I just can't imagine. I doubt it was even momentous for most people tbh? Idk.
Idk I think I had an okay time
People take the sex thing too seriously imo, doesn't matter if it's awkward or if things don't work, just try something else and if no one having fun give it up and go do something else
Maybe I've just never had good sex lmao
People put way too much emphasis on first times though, virginity is an especially cursed concept
Finally someone says it!! But also yeah generally agreed tbh.