I just realised that "like it's your first time" has a positive connotation I guess, but like... motherfucker? Do most people have non-awful first-time experiences of sex? Between garbage sex ed and cisheteronormativity I just can't imagine. I doubt it was even momentous for most people tbh? Idk.
I remember it fondly for sure.
it was later than many people I knew so it was a bit of a relief to finally do it. but it went great because I didn't try and rush it.
I think waiting a little later probably isn't a bad thing yeah...