• RedWizard [he/him, comrade/them]
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    2 months ago

    Daycare is a real game changer. ADHD meds should also be a game changer. One of my friend's kids has ADHD and was recently put on medication and they said their kiddo is so much happier as a result.

    I can empathize with what your going through. I have pretty aggressive ADHD, and given its hereditary nature I worry about my kids inheriting it, and all that comes with it. I also worry about them picking up my bad tenancies that stem from my ADHD.

    After our second I needed to talk with someone and try to get myself in order because it was very overwhelming.

    I'm sure easier days are ahead though, hang on there!

    • roux [he/him, comrade/them]
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      2 months ago

      I'm sure easier days are ahead though, hang on there!

      Struggling but trying lol. I think we got one pretty rough year or so until things start to fall into place.

      • RedWizard [he/him, comrade/them]
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        2 months ago

        Same, but for us its financial more then anything. For 2 kids full time daycare literally costs like 30k a year where I'm at. Granted, it covers all food, which is great, but we need more space and that isn't happening while these kids are pulling that much out the paycheck.