this has been on my mind a lot. I follow some lesbian meme shitposting groups and there's tons of memes that are just like "This girl looked at me and I died and then she smiled at me and I came back to life" and I just cannot think of any cishet men's spaces that bring that have that level of absolutely dorky dysfunctional love for women. And, like, cishet men, their whole thing is supposed to be being in to women, and that just strikes me as really weird that there's not an equivalent. Like the closest I can think of is wife guy memes but that's just one wife, usually.
Do any spaces like that exist? Is it even possible given the way gender works in society?
This exists. It's guys that have formed an active relationship though. It's pretty common for guys to shed that manly attitude and be complete and total dorks in love through the honeymoon 1st year of the relationship. Doesn't get posted online much though other than dorky stuff where entire comments sections of people say "you should marry her" over and over and over.