that really is a title isnt it

  • glans [it/its]
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    1 day ago

    I feel the need to stand up for Cookiejar. It is very unfair to blame E-N's illness on her being a dirty slut, which is basically the argument being made here.

    The butt and the vajayjay are close together and microbes can easily travel during sexual activity. This is why people commonly get UTIs from peen in vajayjay activity even without butt sex being included.

    It is unlikely you'd be able to trace an infection like this to a single moment of lazy filthy behaviour by one's careless partner as described. In fact they kept showing how they were cooking together and E-N was like putting his fingers in his mouth as Cookiejar was chopping. An infection like this can be on objects, such as the knife she was using, and of course her hands themselves. BAM fecal->oral. But almost certainly in the bathroom: faucet, doorhandle, light switch, fixtures, flusher, towel etc. You don't need to eat a poo smeared vajayjay to get an infection like this. If such intimate contact was required, then there is a whole missing piece of the story about Cookiejar's vacation.

    Overall I wish the people who made the video had not leaned on the characterization of vajajays as dirty vectors of disease to spice it up. There is enough cultural confusion about this; adding to it is not helpful. It could also be very confusing for someone who found it while learning about a diagnosis they (or someone close to them) got, to have the idea of maybe it's a STI. That's the kind of misunderstanding that can cause a lot of conflict in a relationship.

    And for goodness' sake if everyone in your home has diarrhea for weeks and weeks on end don't wait until your hands stop working to address it. Because then you won't be able to wipe forward or backward.

    • TraschcanOfIdeology [they/them, comrade/them]
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      1 day ago

      I agree. I think the whole "wiped back to front lol dirty cunnilingus amirite" is really dishonest and clickbaity, especially because if you're having such bad diarrhea, you have to assume that every surface on the bathroom is covered in poo particles, and short of wiping your whole taint and inner thighs with hand sanitizer, cleaning won't change things so much.