I even thought to myself before hand "he's not east asian I'm not east asian it's gonna be weird if I do this" but habits die hard even if they're quickly learned

  • Vingst [he/him]
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    24 hours ago

    sometimes i put payment on the counter because i dont want to cause an awkward fumble

    • FALGSConaut [comrade/them]
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      23 hours ago

      I understand that, but when I'm already reaching out to take their money & they toss a couple bills on the counter I can't help but feel like it's deliberate.