SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]M to Self Improvement • 6 days ago

Cutting porn out of your life, anyone done it and have tips?

SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]M to Self Improvement • 6 days ago

Title. I hate to admit it but I'm an addict and the cycle of getting off to porn has made me seek out harder fetishes I'm not comfortable with in person. So I'm looking to quit. Not do no-fap mind you since that's nonsense, I just don't want to have porn in my life anymore and try and get back to who I used to be.

Any input is more than welcome!

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6 days ago
Download a VPN and set your location to Tennessee or one of the states the sites pulled out of.

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