I'll be answering questions as long as you're all asking them, even if you totally thread necro and comment in weeks or months.

NSFW questions are allowed, I'll flag the thread NSFW if I get them.

  • EmmaGoldman [she/her, comrade/them]
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    4 years ago

    Shit, I cannot help at all with either of these. I'm about as much of a domme as they come, and I'm as lesbian as they get. We don't really do the whole top bottom thing in the sense most people think of. I guess just, have a spine, don't let tops make all the decisions, and be sure that they prioritise you having a good time at least as much as they prioritise their good time. Also, I hear people don't like dead fishes. I've never fucked a fish, so idk whether it being alive is any better, but pillow princesses that just sit there and moan aren't my type. Show initiative and be eager. Be an active participant in sex, rather than letting sex happen to you, I guess.

    I also don't know shit about makeup, I'm kinda soft butch. What I will say is that, just like with painting, it's all about the undercoat, or the canvas. Skin care is truly the most critical foundation for makeup. Also, give a shit about your hair. Figure out what texture your hair has and take care of it the right way!

          • EmmaGoldman [she/her, comrade/them]
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            4 years ago

            Nah, I don't even bottom and I do it cause body hair feels weird to me. I guess if you're outside and sweaty at work it might be weird, but nah. It's not at all something that causes it.

              • melon_popsicle [he/him]
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                4 years ago

                Chiming in with my ass hair experience: Shaving the hair on the cheeks can make you really prone to in-growns, so I recommend just using an electric trimmer there. When it comes to the hair in the crack my preferred solution is to use an epilator. This can hurt quite a bit the first couple of times and some of the angles are tough, but it lasts longer than shaving and never gives me an itchy butthole like shaving does.

                Other options include creams like Nair or Magic Shave Powder which last longer and give smoother results than shaving, but you do have to be careful of burning yourself. I have never tried waxing, professional or at-home, but I imagine that it'd be similar effectiveness to epilating, but faster and therefore a bit less painful.