Isn't socializing inherently anti-individualistic? My relationships are mutually beneficial. At the very least we enjoy each others' company. We help each other out of care for one another. Over the years we have positive effects on each other that grow our love for our fellow humans. Maybe it's just the kind of people I want to be friends with, or maybe I've misunderstood your question.
That's it. Even just going to a cafe with people. It doesn't take long before someone says, I'll get the cutlery, do you want any ketchup while I'm at the stand. And another person grabs a tray to carry the drinks to the table. While another is lagging behind because they held the door for someone with a pram – but don't worry, someone else brought them a chair over to make sure they have a seat when they catch up.
Isn't socializing inherently anti-individualistic? My relationships are mutually beneficial. At the very least we enjoy each others' company. We help each other out of care for one another. Over the years we have positive effects on each other that grow our love for our fellow humans. Maybe it's just the kind of people I want to be friends with, or maybe I've misunderstood your question.
That's it. Even just going to a cafe with people. It doesn't take long before someone says, I'll get the cutlery, do you want any ketchup while I'm at the stand. And another person grabs a tray to carry the drinks to the table. While another is lagging behind because they held the door for someone with a pram – but don't worry, someone else brought them a chair over to make sure they have a seat when they catch up.