step one of coming to any kind of solution would be for the Israelis to stop killing people and nicking all their shit.

Absolutely. But that's not a policy non-Israelis can enact. Might as well say the first step to end WW2 is for Germany to stop doing the Holocaust.

The fact people don't have a perfect end solution is not a reason not to take that obvious first step in finding one

The Israeli solution is genocide. And they're enacting it.

The American solution appears to be enabling that genocide, while running media cover for it at home

"One Palestine" under a Netanyahu government isn't any kind of panacea for the killing.