Context, I'm 30 now and i will find women my age and up attractive, but 15 years ago a 35 year old women would never have been attractive to me.
As I've aged younger women are less and less attractive (thankfully)
But when I'm 60 will 60 year old women be attractive to me?
You're right i should discount the experience of everyone else in the world.
Ive never been on fire, everyone that has and survived hasn't enjoyed it but maybe i shoukd burn myself just in case
Non sequitur, strawman.
A fire causes harm, your opinion on how unpleasant it is won't change that. On the other hand, the only person who could possibly know your own romantic preferences is you.