People in there are at their wit's end with their friends and family. The liberal response to QAnon friends and family members basically amounts to sending these people Vox articles about how incredibly uncivil QAnon is, and since we all know that 99% of the time, this is going to have no effect at all, some of the people there may be open to other approaches.

One of the top threads at the moment is written by a mother describing the rightwing radicalization of her 17-year-old son: https://www.reddit.com/r/QAnonCasualties/comments/or08cw/mother_in_need_of_advice/

Like apparently many of the people who have fallen to QAnon, the kid was pretty non-political until recently. According to the mother, he is now spending basically all day in his room doing "research" on his computer. He won't listen to anything she tells him. The mother describes herself as "moderate left." :cringe:

But here is the thing. The kid is actually pretty far gone at this point. The best way to stop your friends and family from falling to QAnon is to ensure that they are politically literate commies in the first place. But she's past that point now.

If she does something drastic, like cutting off his internet or even throwing him out of their house, is that actually going to help? Since she can't send him to a re-education camp, what is she supposed to do? Is it even possible to help these people in our society as it is right now?

My only suggestion at this moment is for her to find out what websites he's using to brainwash himself and then to block them. (Some apps out there, like Self Control, are extremely difficult to get around, at least for me.) At the same time, since liberal or moderate politics is a stale boring dead end, she should probably send him here, so exposure to actual leftwing memes radicalizes him in a different direction.

Does this approach have any hope of success? What are your thoughts? I was going to message her (since I've been banned from that sub for advocating mass re-education...), but I want to see what people here think first.

If I do get in touch with her, I won't be surprised if she just says something like "communism is just as bad as QAnon" or something. That being said, messaging people who post in that sub still might yield some results.

  • Mrtryfe [none/use name]
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    3 years ago

    His mother being unaware of his political leanings until they got this bad also tells us that he might not feel love and support from his parents.

    Basically a trope at this point. That's why it's just a fool's game to try and see if some niche community on the internet can help this kid out. There is so much digging that needs to be done in regards to who this kid is, what his relationship is with the people surrounding him, what his mom's situation is in terms of life and her relationships, whether she's all the way there mentally, etc and so and so forth. Every time a parent is shocked by something like this, anyone with some idea of who the kid is will have seen it coming from a mile away.

    In a perfect world these people would get therapy and be able to work out their issues, but they have to want to change for anything like that to work.

    Yeah, they'd need avenues to pursue mental health, and societal norms would have to be directed in a manner where getting that help isn't so stigmatized. Neither of that exists in the US at any tangible level.