Perhaps I could have avoided offending your sensibilities if I had phrased my initial response "hard to ascertain the veracity of the accuser's claims" rather than "know where to stand." Why even come into this thread if you can't bear the thought of people discussing the events related to the topic? People talk, they gossip, they form opinions on on things they encounter in their daily lives and I can't imagine a mode of society where that would be untrue. I just don't understand your need to be so negative toward me.