EDIT: I don't like the term 'soy boy', just picked 'soydev' for a lack of a better word, intending to use it semi-ironically.
recently I saw a project move PR discussions to discord, like what's the point of using a git forge at this point, you can as well just use git send-email
I agree and am aware of the connotations of such terms, didn't really mean to get associated with bigots like this.