It seems like every culture expects guests to want to eat regardless of their circumstances, and if you refuse, you’re automatically rude and insulting.

If I offer you food and you refuse, I’m going to be quite happy. It means I get to save money and have more food to myself. I ain’t offering a second time if you say no the first time :maduro-coffee:

  • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    you can refuse but doing so you should say that you are too full and performatively bemoan the offered food.

    at least that works in my experience