semi- Serious question, Idon’t get it. Most of us get why the hegemonic gender system is stupid, why subscribe to the binary role you were assigned? Also, why do straight people exist? Maybe it’s just me but I like to look and feel like my own perception of what is attractive.
I actually did that and then it becomes this weird conversation where I try to justify wearing traditional scottish clothes because I don't have the guts to openly challenge gender norms.