Sorry if this is the wrong comm, but I had to get this off my chest. I am so sick and tired of dealing with bi-erasure. I am a bisexual man who is I'd say 90% attracted to women and 10% attracted to men. Best I can explain it, I am mostly attracted to women and occasionally attracted to a man. It really is that simple, but for a lot of people I might as well be explaining calculus. I understand if most straight people can't fathom it, after all they are straight. But what really irks me is when other LGBT people erase it, telling me I am "in the closet" or whatever. It makes me so damn angry because I am not in the closet, I am open about my bisexuality, yet no one believes it. I have only dated women, but everyone in my life off and online including my gf who herself is LGBTQ+ thinks I am gay. I'm so sick of it I think I'll either just tell people I am straight or become gay.

  • GalaxyBrain [they/them]
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    1 year ago

    I wish people could be chill while also keeping vampy evil bisexuals as a character archetype. Like, it's for sure problematic but it's also goals.

    • BringMeExtra [xe/xem,fae/faer]
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      1 year ago

      chaotic vampy bisexuals have such powerful energy. we just need to add other types of bisexual archetypes to media, not remove that one ya know