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    • AHopeOnceMore [he/him]B
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      2 years ago

      I strongly disagree that you weren't rude to anyone. The original issues I pointed out would count as rude. I'd say you're taking comrades here for granted and overall they have been very patient. I'd also invite you to ask yourself what you think anyone is getting out of these negative interactions, including yourself.

      I don't know anything about your prior interactions with the other user but I do empathize if there were toxic interactions.

        • AHopeOnceMore [he/him]B
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          2 years ago

          None of that is responsive to what I said.

          Your responses to me and others are overly defensive to the point that they communicate bad faith. Please consider taking a short break or rest so that you can engage with and treat others here like comrades.

            • AHopeOnceMore [he/him]B
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              2 years ago

              Not lie entirely on you? You haven't accepted any fault whatsoever, let alone any of my criticisms or advice.

              Trying to point the finger at others to deflect from self-crit is unhelpful, avoidant, and a good example of the defensiveness I'm talking about.

              You are not making any sense, are now acting childish and sarcastic towards me, and you need to take a break. Your behavior here is self-destructive. It's as if you want people to have good reason to write you off.

              Again, and I mean this in the best of ways, take a fucking break.