https://hexbear.net/create_post?community=philosophy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Great_Good_Place_(book)

I read this book, The Great, Good Place years ago for a college course and it stuck with me. I first encountered it back in the days of myspace, friendster, etc, the days of relative innocence, of "look ma, no hands!!" Then along came sites like reddit and digg, becoming mainstay even though ultimately tragic flings (Digg) and long-term affairs (reddit, a 16 year journey participating in promise, devolving to ruin). Did social media become the great new places? Or something entirely different?

By the time I turfed reddit I was done anyways, so full of frustration and anger over what could have been, the feeling consisting mainly of being ground underfoot. The Great, Good Place argues that "third places"--Where people can gather, put aside the concerns of work and home, and hang out simply for the pleasures of good company and lively conversation - are the heart of a community's social vitality and the grassroots of democracy. But with the advent of social media, its quite possible they've gone the way of the dinosaur.

I tried some other places, but either they were the online equivalents of round files for spam to be dumped in, or so full of outright racist bloat masquerading as "free speech", that it made my blood levels rise just like as on reddit. Try as I might, I couldn't "hang in there" and make it work, to filter out the bad for truth of finding the occasional good in a place.

Somehow I stumbled upon this site (Hexbear, touted as a place for leftists to gather) and it has me hopeful. Striking similarities to the comradery of discus, combined with the social bookmarking that structures like reddit once offered. Hoping there is political diversity that I can learn new things, and not feed from the same plate day after day, a plate that's been about as far left as you can get since back in my mid-eighties Oly/Evergreen days.

And now for the final question of my rant: Digg, what happened to ye???!!!! Such promise! I've ne'er seen a possibility drained of all potential in such a sudden, and final way. Ok, ok, probably not the best question to end a post that found its way onto the Philosophy forum. So perhaps I ought frame the question along these lines: in this day and age, with the internet going through in one day what took a year back in the early days, do we stand the chance of achieving a great, good gathering place that won't subside into commercial ruin?

  • Sphere [he/him, they/them]
    ·
    1 year ago

    Hi, friend! Welcome!

    I can't say we're the be-all and end-all of third places on the Internet here, but I think we've managed to create a nice little community here. Of course, this site only came to be as a result of the original ChapoTrapHouse subreddit being banned, so it's not like we've pioneered any kind of strategy for creating one here. Not really sure how to foster such websites in the capitalist hellscape we inhabit, to be honest.

    I've also thought a fair amount about the issue of third places irl. I had some ideas about trying to make use of dead malls to create community centers or something for people to gather and spend time, but I have no idea how something like that would be funded. Seems to me the question of money is perpetually getting in the way of efforts to make the world better, though, so I guess I'll just keep thinking about how to make it work.

    • DiltoGeggins [none/use name]
      hexagon
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      1 year ago

      the question of money

      its possible that the ingredient for a truly authentic third place may not hinge on money? grants, rather?