neroiscariot [none/use name] to mutual_aid • 11 months ago

I truly hate asking for help, I feel terrible

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I truly hate asking for help, I feel terrible

neroiscariot [none/use name] to mutual_aid • 11 months ago

Hey guys, you may know me as the dad that has monetary problems. My ex abused my love for my children, while taking child support.

We are at the end of a two week possession, where she has left me wIth basically nothing. She used my accounts to pay for school registration, daycare... leaving me with less than $40.

I have to make rent this week, which I think I can do...but I just need help with groceries until Friday. I hate asking, and I would normally donate plasma for extra money...but I can't with this schedule.

EDIT: thank you everyone for boosting and helping out. I love all of you. I was able to get all the food I needed to make it through the weekend for my twins and cats. If any of you ever need anything with graphic design, please reach out.

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neroiscariot [none/use name]
hexagon
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11 months ago
Thanks :-) stretches like this really break whatever saving I manage to do. I appreciate it

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- Kuori [she/her]
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  11 months ago
  i'm sorry you're going through all this. it really does just take one little thing to torpedo months of careful scrimping and saving
  
  i hope you're allowed to get back on your feet soon.
  
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