I loved the old-style forums that were around before digg and Reddit largely took over their role. Today, Lemmy is the closest thing I've found to the same type of culture and tighter-knit community I felt on the older forums. Finding Lemmy has completely stripped any desire for me to want to use Reddit again as the culture there feels like it is constantly working to suck my soul out through my eyeballs.
While I understand everyone has different preferences than me, I also wonder why Lemmy users continue to frequent anything but the smaller, niche subreddits. Reddit feels as if it has been decaying for a long time and there is little substance left on the wider site, while Lemmy doesn't feel this way.
So what keeps you going back?
Is it hate-scrolling? Is it niche subs? Do you feel differently about the cultures of Reddit and Lemmy?
Please help me understand.
lol sometimes I can't help myself and post news about the west failing just to watch the freak out
Do they actually get a fair amount of interaction besides being removed? I'm assuming this is in the news subs?
Sometimes they take off and the whole comment section is just massive cope.
I don't anymore. I deleted my account a couple of times only to come back, telling myself I'd stick to hobby subs but it never works out. Sooner or later I'm back arguing on the internet again, wasting my time. I'm better off deleting the app and I only visit Lemmygrad now. My real life sanity is more important than internet points.
I keep it around for a few reasons.
Mostly it's for the hobbyspace subs. I have a few hobbies and some are probably a bit too niche for a smaller site like Lemmy. OBOSOB parked the ergo keyboard comm on a defederated server so reddit is my only real option there. Plus the Lemmy comm just felt dull. I see SBC and retro emulation talk on hexbear every now and then but not sure of a dedicated community for it. Not sure if there even is a horror community that we are federated with. I just need to have a steady feed of my things I like. Hexbear/Lemmygrad has been great for like-mindedness but they are a bit slower feedwise.
Also the ASD spaces over there are heavily trafficked and that's one of my special interests(because of course). I still check the 2 ND comms I know of on Lemmy but it's just slower.
But also I have a tendency of talking shit to the people on reddit subs that are deliberately being obtuse, reactionary, or contrary. I tend to argue with chuds in /r/lsc or dickbags in /r/vegan.
Also /r/thedeprogram and /r/communismmemes are pretty chill. Those subs feel a lot like what I like about Hexbear/Lemmygrad.
But also I have a tendency of talking shit to the people on reddit subs that are deliberately being obtuse, reactionary, or contrary. I tend to argue with chuds in /r/lsc or dickbags in /r/vegan.
I used to do that and still sometimes have that reaction to people in some of the .ml communities, but seeking those out ended up making me feel like I was purposely wasting time arguing with shitheads that would never listen. It just made me angrier and I think I'm happier without it.
My bosses give me plenty to get angry about so I don't get bored. I'm just lucky I'm difficult to replace, so I can speak my mind more often than most can.
I used to like some of the commie subs too, but I find Lemmy fills those interactions better and our comrades here are generally better informed, so I don't really miss them much. r/Deprogram and some others posted fire memes that I sometimes miss.
but seeking those out ended up making me feel like I was purposely wasting time arguing
Yeah I get that. I don't really get angry about dumb shit people say and mostly do it out of boredom.
The content of Lemmy depends on your chosen instance. For Reddit, it's just dying, except for video game and entertainment subreddits.
That's how I feel. It's definitely gotten aggressive in terms of quieting any dissenting opinion too.
Something I was always frustrated with was the extremely confident answers that were completely wrong becoming top comments while the correct answers were often buried and down voted.
I don't, unless I'm searching for a question about how to solve any particular tech problem and reddit has a post with a good answer.
I follow hobby subs and the few left leaning subs and a few shit posting stupid subs. I come here for news, commie memes, and to see intelligent conversations with communists. I go to reddit to see a few other funnies and see what's happening with the fermentation, cast iron, woodworking, and canning subs. Also the Aldi sub cause I'm a fucking weirdo.
I don't.
I don't actively boycott it, if it comes up as a resource when I am researching something (which is often the case for tech questions) I will use it for that. I don't engage with it though. I am pretty sure I had been banned from most news subs already for being an Evil Tankie.
I miss a couple niche subs, like TalesFromTheFrontDesk, but not a whole lot else.
When I first migrated over here, I actually kept a second lemmy account that was more exposed to the broader lemmyverse, but I actually found it irritated me as much as Reddit so I have consolidated my online presence here. Any instance that would ban lemmygrad is one I probably didn't want to see anyway.
I actually kept a second lemmy account that was more exposed to the broader lemmyverse, but I actually found it irritated me as much as Reddit so I have consolidated my online presence here. Any instance that would ban lemmygrad is one I probably didn't want to see anyway.
I've had the same experience and came to the same conclusion.
I mostly left, but ended up back for a sub or two - mainly a thing of there not really being an equivalent to the given sub elsewhere. I try to avoid the larger subs though, I tend to find only misery and pain there. And even my attention on the small ones dwindles over time, they are not immune to the same crowd that frequents the larger ones, and I get little out of them.
I just need these communities for my favorite games. The other option would be to hang around discords and that form of social media is trash.
I don't. Maybe when searching for an obscure answer to a question via search engine, but i definitely ain't logging in and browsing
I use reddit for getting quick information for things like veganism, linux, and technology. And for going on the communist subreddits like genzedong, the deprogram, r/communism, etc. (Going to r/communism feels like going to an abandoned temple with a feel of melancholy) and for things like memes and shitposts
I look for info occasionally too, but just do a search and include Reddit. Aside from finding the info, I don't bother logging in or going deeper into the site.
It's helpful for tech issues, but most of those posts are over 10 years old.
I just stay in reddit but for niche subs such as tech, homesteading, aquaponics, manga, ArchitecturalRevival and some others. However, for news and engaging, I prefer Lemmygrad 100x more than reddit.
Doing this makes my life happier as I stopped reading and combatting scummy chuds in Reddit(I hide any popular sub and click the "shower fewer posts like this" to feed to the algo).
I only use it when it shows up as a search result in SearxNG or Ecosia, through a frontend like Redlib, without signing in, and with Mullvad active.
Otherwise I haven't gone back. Accounts scrubbed and deleted. Honestly better mentally (disregarding real life stressors and depression) and less new hobbies since I left Reddit.
For dog pics, also I'm a mod there and if I give up the communities would get overrun with reactionaries
