I made two posts on !anime@lemmy.ml, neither are visible on both instances lemmy.ml are recommending.
beehaw.org has already become a much bigger instance and they ban lemmygrad, we're already invisible to half the people using lemmy.
It will keep getting worse, at some point you'll need to maintain two separate instance accounts and you'll consider dropping one of them.
That's been my approach as well. I also find it's nice be able to post to lemmy.ml from Lemmygrad and not have all the libs from paces like beehaw descend to downvote. So it's sort of a feature when you think about it. :)
We can more effectively spread agitprop to users from other instances without having them brigade/downvote bomb our comments, very well noted!
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