• autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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      1 year ago

      Hey did you notice the "autism" in my name? Maybe I have more perspective to speak on what words are and aren't slurs against my group than you do fuckass.

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        • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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          1 year ago

          Language evolves. "Mental removedation" is not longer recognized as as medical term, its use in modern times is generally regarded as a slur by the disability community and is treated as such in pretty much all communities that actively try to include neurodiverse people are oppose ableism.

          So to answer the question of "ince wshen". The answer is "for at least a couple decades now". I was actually hit by my friend with a severely disabled brother for using it back in like 2006.

          I am active in the disability rights movement and pretty much all of us that are agree the word is a slur and there is no excuse to be using it. Its not a "word for mental capacity" anymore and hasn't been in a long time. Plus, insinuating that mental disability is a BAD thing is ableist on its face.

          • n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            1 year ago

            Jesus fuck, people need to grow a spine. There are much more pressing matters to cry about. Half the fucking planet is on fire but no, let's cry about a word.

            I grew up on the obese side, was made fun of for it my entire childhood. Do I get offended when I am called fat? No I laugh it off, because it's true. At some point it's better to not be offended all day

            • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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              1 year ago

              We can can care about more than one thing at a time lol. Do you also think black people should just "get over" the n word because global warming exists? Or gay people with the f slur? Do you think that women should stop complaining about sexual harassment in the workplace because global warming exists? Those are often "just words" after all. I care deeply about global warming and want to do things about it, probably more than you do, but that doesn't mean I have to be ok with words meant to insult and attack me and people like me.

              Idk if this rhetoric will work with you because you probably do think those things, at least about the slurs.

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            • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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              1 year ago

              I have internalized my own abuse to the point where i sound like a reactionary redditor and so should you

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            • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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              1 year ago

              It's pretty clear the user autism dragon has a spine, that's why they're telling you to back off instead of accepting you using a term they find hurtful

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