This is a question do you know it
So I would like a private part that I would use anonymously and a public part everyone is allowed to know. AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T RECOMMEND QUEBES it isn't good at handling GPUs that well and I do have 2 machines like one server and one client but what would be the best setup (and no 2 physical laptops to be carried arround is not a solution neither is dualboot on 1TB)... so let me know
Okay, what do you want?
"Quebes" maybe means QubesOS, so you are searching for an operating system, but since you mentioned problems with GPUs, you probably have Nvidia cards and to that I can only say good luck getting Nvidia cards to run with docker.
Well yes basically QuebesOS but with nvidia support
Okay, I cannot really help you with that, because getting Nvidia to run is hard and especially for docker it will most likely not be supported out of the box. You will probably have to install the docker drivers yourself and hope that it works. Sorry, I have an Nvidia card myself and it sucks.
Secondly: Next time be more specific with what you want, what your hardware is and what you want to do with it, because most people (like me) could not really understand, what you meant with your initial text.