• arcrust@lemmy.ml
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    11 months ago

    Downvoted unkind discourse.

    Upvote is for quality. No vote is for noise/disagreements. Downvote is for hate.

    In theory, the lower a score, the less people see something. If I disagree with something that's said (like a civil political opinion), then I won't 'like' it. That takes away one potential point. But if someone is being unkind to others (mean, rude, trolling, etc) then I'll downvote, which I see as removing two votes. The one they could have had from me, and one from someone else. Hopefully, that means they won't get as much attention.

    If it's really bad, then I'll also report

    • maegul@lemmy.ml
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      11 months ago

      Upvote is for quality. No vote is for noise/disagreements. Downvote is for hate.

      Yep. This, I think, "is the way". The downvote for disagreement is not a good pattern and probably never was IMO. This is a good way of putting it. Another way someone else put it was essentially that the downvote is about the way in which something is said and the upvote is about whether you agree with it.

      I honestly think separating them out in some way, so that we can still use the downvote as an effective tool of aggregating the quality of a post, but not in a way that is simply there to offset upvotes. Like, maybe two "scores", number of upvotes and number of down votes with different filters for each? In a way, the "controversial" sort achieves something like this.

  • viking@infosec.pub
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    11 months ago
    • Report spam, scam, racism, hostility and clickbait
    • Don't engage trolls
    • Don't answer questions I'm not sure I have the correct answer for (or else point out that I'm just giving a "best guess" response)
    • Try to be neutral or positive/affirming in replies. If I can't, I'd rather not reply at all.
  • Fizz@lemmy.nz
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    11 months ago

    When I see people going through something that resonates with me I acknowledge that its hard and encourage them to keep trying and that they will make it to the otherside.

    • evatronic@lemm.ee
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      11 months ago

      I do this, and employ frequent and rapid blocking on social media.

      Instead of engaging, dick wads get blocked without comment.

    • blkpws@lemmy.ml
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      11 months ago

      Or just force any software to be Open Source, so you can see they are not doing anything bad with your data and all the community could improve things.

  • blkpws@lemmy.ml
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    11 months ago

    Use all Open Source and community driven! And never register on any Social Network platform that isn't open source and decentralized.

  • CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    I write a lot of comments that I feel add important information and context, I add links to save other people clicks, and I back down on the odd occasion I make a mistake.

  • tarneo@lemmy.ml
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    11 months ago

    Use a non-chromium browser son that web environment integrity doesn't work. (Librewolf)

  • sunbeam60@lemmy.one
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    11 months ago

    Remove anonymity.

    I’m not advocating for that. The internet would be a boring dystopia, but it sure as shit would be nicer if every statement could be tied back to a real person.

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    11 months ago

    When some nihilistic edgelord cares too much about others caring about something and screeches "WHO CARES?" or "NO ONE CARES" wojak-nooo thought-terminating cliches to try to shut discussion down, I voluntarily say "I care" and that often shuts them up and whatever was being cared about usually continues.

    It's a small thing, but I think it makes a local difference.