• nephs@lemmygrad.ml
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    17 hours ago

    Looks like you were bothered. Why? That might help figuring out the appropriate reaction.

    Feels like you felt personally attacked for being the one they chose to cut in front to. If that's the case, a clear "hey, please find somewhere else in the line to cut in front to" might be enough to get them to at least swap places with you. It acknowledges them, is polite, but firm.

  • Addfwyn@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 day ago

    Depends what the line is for and what kind of relative hurry we are in. Are we waiting for food in a cafeteria? Not a big deal. Seats at an event that is a first-come, first-served basis? Bigger issue. It affects everyone behind me too, not just me.

    I’d likely say something, but not create a big fuss about it if they’re dead set on it.

    • -6-6-6-@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 day ago

      The actual answer. Only difference is that I'd just cut infront right after and then say something so that social pressure is directed from both sides.

  • Kultronx@lemmygrad.ml
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    2 days ago

    depending on the person, I think it's best to say assertively "excuse me, the line begins back there" while squinting and pointing

      • Kultronx@lemmygrad.ml
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        15 hours ago

        hmmm depends on the amount of people around and I guess if they aren't over 6'4" I would probably loudly call them a fucking jackass and that's it as like others have said, I wouldn't want to catch a charge over a lineup.

      • keepcarrot [she/her]
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        2 days ago

        Depends on how willing I am to get assaulted over queuing etiquette

          • keepcarrot [she/her]
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            1 day ago

            Idk, people don't usually cut queues, and after that don't normally just ignore an entire queue of people yelling at him to get back. Something is probably up.

      • redtea@lemmygrad.ml
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        2 days ago

        Make disapproving looks to the people around you so that everyone knows how disappointed you are in the line-cutter and hope that someone will nod at the injustice and tut on your behalf.