How do you "Do as as I say, not as I do"?
“Don’t overthink it” & “worrying won’t solve the problem when you have to wait anyway”.
I always give that advice. However, I, personally, always overthink and keep worrying.
"don't worry about it being perfect" and "stop being so self critical"
"Your life is worth it, don't give up!"
Right as I think about my own suicide plans.
I feel like a hypocrite.
I will give men advice on how to be more attractive to women but i dont use that advice because i only like men lol. Not that im like the women whisperer i just find straight men to be... misguided i guess is the best word. They project their own wants onto women and dont consider hey maybe she doesnt want the same things you do in a partner.
"If you can't truly be a good, supportive, platonic friend to her with no secret ulterior motive, maybe you don't deserve her. Maybe you need to take a look at not only how you treat women, but how you think about them."
Most straight men have a lot of patriarchal shit they need to work out within themselves that contribute to them being bad partners.
