My last crushpost got a little weird. They usually don’t get much attention, and what little there is I think is usually men. So this thread should be a good opportunity for women and enbies to bring up what you find problematic.
Update:
Thanks everyone for responding. I have read all the replies and am giving them serious consideration. I will stop crushposting, I deleted all the posts, and deleted the meat of this post as well. Weird or not, however obfuscated, it’s still an obsession and a privacy concern.
I understand where you are coming from and if blight has a problem with it I’ll try to adjust the wording, but he was point blank asked last night if he identified as enby and basically dodged the question and said he didn’t care.
I’m not trying to get into a whole conversation about gender identity, my main point is about how it comes across to post some of these things especially from someone using he/him pronouns.
I see your point, but frankly think it’s besides the matter as the discussion revolves around misogyny and misogyny effected vs unaffected individuals which the latter blight would fall under.