Being independent in your early 20s is overrated.
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When I was an early teenager, I was always excited about moving out at 18 and going to college , living on my own and doing whatever I want but...

I think that independence is overrated; the only way to attain proper independence is to live off the grid.

Just moving your shelter from your parents doesn't give you independence; it just shifts the care taker of the shelter. You still have to rely on other people not killing you.